In the world
of romance, one single rule applies to the men: Make the woman happy. Do
something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points
are subtracted.

You don’t get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that’s the way
the game is played.

Here is a guide to the point system:

SIMPLE DUTIES

You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5) In the rain (+8) But return with Beer
(-5)

You check
out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0)
You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It’s her pet (-10)

SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS

You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-2)
Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)

HER BIRTHDAY

You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it’s not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it’s a sports bar (-2) And it’s all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It’s a sports bar, it’s all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colours
of your favourite team (-10)

A NIGHT OUT

You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It’s called ‘DeathCop’ (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)

YOUR PHYSIQUE

You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian
shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn’t matter, you have one too." (-8000)

ENJOY THE ‘BIG’ QUESTION

She asks, "Do I look fat?" (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT]
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)

COMMUNICATION

When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like
a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)

Now what chance do you have???

To the
fellas for info & to the gals for a good laugh!

I’ve spend the past two weeks interviewing people with physical disability. I manage to make friends with a few of them. Though this experience I have learn a lot of things. Although I did learn it from else where but this time, it enrich my experience.

I would like to say thank you to a few of my friends that have generously give their hands to assist me in my project. We went to places from spastics associations to public spastics individual to interview.

We met many people from interview shy to people who really love to share their story with us. I cant tell if any of my friends learn anything but if i’m not mistaken, this has really touch most of us.

During the interview majority of them are not very good in english some couldnt event speak a word. Many of my friends were assisting me in translating to them to obtain information.

The interview was much tougher than expected. I learn that these people are refer to as OKU. In their interview they bath us with a lot of information. Some were cripple due to accidents and some were born that way…

To cut it short, its erm a great experience. Thank you to my translators (Arfa, Jenna, and John) and the interviewees (Dominic, John and the others). I shall forever be in debt.

Tangisan Dalam Kerinduan Lyrics

Dalam kerinduan iniKu menatap gambar wajahmu di ruang kamarRintahan asmara kau dan akuKini tinggal memori yang menghiris di kalbu

Duhai bayuSampaikan salam pada dirinyaNyatakan betapa kini perpisahanSemua kuredhai

Dalam tangisan yang syahduKau mendustai percintaan dirikuSetelah aku memberi segala-galanyaPengorbanan ku kau persiakan

Bridge:Oh mengapaTangisan dalam kerinduan iniMenjadi kehidupanku tidak menentuKeretakan bak dihempas kacaOh mengapa

Korus:Ku masih merinduimuWalau tidak dijodohkanSuratan takdir telah menentukannya

Kumasih menyintaimuHingga ke akhir hayatkuBiarku simpan perasaaan ini¡­ kasih

Izinku membawa diriOh bayu sampaikan salam perpisahanOh.. dari ku

Find me listening to Malay song shocking? Lol do not be surprise  

Things I do when I’m happy:-

I dont really know just yet. When I’m happy, I dont have to do anything I’m just HAPPY

Things I do when I’m upset:-
**Play the doll and dress up (Paint my nails and etc-to buy myself time to think/searching for solution)
**OR be extremely casual and bother nothing about appearance.
**Make plenty of gifts for other people (people that matters-doesnt mean if you receive none you are not special)
**Go do something crazy (Runaway and stay out of my house)
**Talk to people (usually never done it-I cant bring about myself to talk about the problem again NO I’m not avoiding. I just believe in my own capability of handling the issue at hand and I didnt want anyone to influence my judgement or decision)
**Listen to other people talk (at least it keeps my mind off my problems-NO I’M NOT AVOIDIN THE ISSUE)
**Lock myself in the room & sleep my days off
**Read plenty of book (My mind insist by reading I can gain more knowledge convert my upset energy into good use)
**Sleepless nights
**Hugging others (I want to absorb their energy their support and their comfort-for a moment I felt nothings impossible)
**Going on a holiday (I’ll make sure the trip is not a short one-although at times minimum 2D 1N I’d be glad) Who wouldnt when they have no time to run away having a 2D 1N is like heaven already
**Wishing I was a cry baby so I can learn to express myself or cry when I’m upset (Usually never work cuz pride forbid)
**Pamper myself a little (Get myself gifts, dine in nice places. OR go for a haircut and etc)

**Arrange for a hectic schedule hoping to accomplish more in a shorter time.

If you notice some are totally opposite. Like either sleep or sleepless. They are always excessive more than the necessary…
What do YOU do when you are upset?

Sebenarnya saya tak faham, akan tetapi saya perlu terima sebab itu hakikat…
Sesungguhpun saya tak erti, akan tetapi saya kena redah kepada tuhan…

Kadangkala hidup bagaikan bererti tersirat. Jikalau seseorang itu menggunakan hatinya untuk merasainya, menggunakan hati sebagai matanya, seseorang itu akan mempunyai suatu pandangan yang jauh lebih bagus serta mendalam berbanding dengan yang lain.

Pernah sekali ada seorang pejalan kaki yang telah melalui saya memberitahu saya, untuk mencari kehidupan yang sederhana biasa adalah bagaikan mencari jarum di laut. Sederhana biasa tidak pernah wujud. Sederhana biasa sebenarnya susah dicapai.

I’m still speechless about it… Didnt know what to say or what to do. I’m not impressed I pity you infact… For everything.

The best thing that happen today, well i got the book "When there is hope"…
The phrase I love most in this book would be "The whole fucking century stinks"…